The  “Need it, Want it, Gotta have it” Game

 

It’s now time to see how closely you and your future spouse agree on the importance of the following items. Consider each item for its importance to you, and then check a column representing a level of importance to you:

 

Necessary          Very Useful             Merely Desirable                 Extra Luxury

 

(in each column check no more than 12 items in each category)

 

 

Item

Necessary

Very Useful

Merely Desirable

Extra Luxury

TV

 

 

 

 

Cable TV service

 

 

 

 

Satellite TV service

 

 

 

 

DVD Player

 

 

 

 

Microwave

 

 

 

 

Health Insurance

 

 

 

 

Life Insurance

 

 

 

 

Cell Phone

 

 

 

 

Pets

 

 

 

 

Savings Account

 

 

 

 

Crystal China

 

 

 

 

Personal Computer

 

 

 

 

Monthly Internet Access

 

 

 

 

Sterling Silverware

 

 

 

 

2 Bedroom Apartment

 

 

 

 

Air conditioning

 

 

 

 

Second Car

 

 

 

 

New car every 3 years

 

 

 

 

Stereo Equipment

 

 

 

 

Food Processor

 

 

 

 

Dishwasher

 

 

 

 

Two incomes

 

 

 

 

Sewing Machine

 

 

 

 

Wall to Wall Carpeting

 

 

 

 

Health Club Membership

 

 

 

 

Stocked Liquor Cabinet

 

 

 

 

Golf Clubs

 

 

 

 

Vacations

 

 

 

 

Stocks and Bonds

 

 

 

 

Retirement account / 401(k) plan

 

 

 

 

Gas Grill

 

 

 

 

Credit Cards

 

 

 

 

Shopping Sprees

 

 

 

 

Home Ownership within 5 years

 

 

 

 

Continuing Education

 

 

 

 

Tickets to sports events or concerts